Tuesday, October 17, 2006

Walk in Love.

Love is the only healing force in the world.

Love of God, self and neighbor.

As I meditated this morning I contemplated how much pain in our lives and world is caused by fear and hurt exhibiting itself as anger. I looked at my pain. When I am hurt I often exhibit anger but underneath the anger is hurt.

When I hold onto my anger; the hurt remains.
When I admit my hurt; the anger often dissipates.

Often our anger seems so justified.
I can easily rationalize screaming at someone in traffic who nearly hits me.

I was thinking of a particular family I know who some members haven’t spoken in years. The excuse is that two folks claim they have been wronged and are angry at one another, so rather than address their fear and hurt both men choose to remain angry. How senseless. Pride. Control. Killing themselves. It’s all fear and hurt.

Like the greatest band of all time, The Clash says, “anger can be power”; and man, do we use it. It seems so much easier to be angry rather than doing the deep work of naming our fears and hurt. I have found it takes tremendous courage to admit my fear and hurt. So we keep swallowing the poison hoping another will die.

I have spent a great deal of time on my knees pouring my soul out to God. I tell God all my hurt, anger and fear. I give God all the details. It helps... little by little.

I think anger gives me power and it feels like it at times, but my real power comes from love. It takes great courage and faith to love. Perfect love cast out fear.

It’s not about being a doormat. Jesus wasn’t a doormat.
He believed in love.

Was he right?

Sometimes though, no amount of faith or hope can dispel a fear and heal a hurt. Only love can do that.

What do we do when all the faith is gone?
What do we do when the hope seems to be evaporating?
The only thing that remains is love.
And the greatest of these is love.
Walk in love.

10 Comments:

Blogger Gigi said...

Your processing is helping others....Your journey is a light to others.....keep on writing. Thanks for allowing us the privilege of coming alongside of you.....thanks

1:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey, you posted today!!! I just found this. Good words, Rick. You are the second person I read today that said the Clash was a great band. Really - how odd is that? (I mean agree about the Clash but how , Love Others, Follow Christ He'll show you how.odd that 2 people said it today that I happened to read).

This is good:
When I hold onto my anger; the hurt remains.
When I admit my hurt; the anger often dissipates.

6:35 PM  
Blogger Donna G said...

beautiful words from a beautiful heart....damage does not mask the beauty!

10:45 PM  
Blogger Questing Parson said...

I'm privileged to be an observer of your journey. Keep on keeping going.

10:55 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The Clash? Oh no my friend, Crosby Stills & Nash was the greatest band ever!
Carry on.
Love is coming,
Love is coming to us all.
(Oops, my age is showing!) Thank you for sharing your journey. You have a gift.
--Becky

11:02 PM  
Blogger bobbie said...

anger masking fear in my life is so hard for me to spot. fear is so imobilizing i use the quick empowerment anger brings to quell and silence my fear.

learning to sit with my fear and not downshift into anger is one of the most difficult things i've been trying to learn in my recovery.

still praying rick!

2:17 PM  
Blogger bobbie said...

immobilizing... sigh.

2:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The funny thing about anger that we hold onto is that it really doesn't make any sense.

We think:
"That person hurt me. So, to get them back, I'm going to hold onto this hurt; nurture and feed it, until it gives me an ulcer, turns my hair gray, and almost kills me. That'll show 'em"

4:00 PM  
Blogger bruced said...

I've given up on trying to have faith. All I can do is trust that Jesus has enough for both of us. That seems to work just fine.

9:32 AM  
Blogger bruced said...

By the way, Rick... do you have an RSS feed link I can use? Thanks

9:34 AM  

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