Big Black Rottweilers & the Church.
"Who in their right mind would own a Rottweiler?" This was the question I asked my wife one-day as we passed someone walking his big, black rotty. I was totally afraid and ignorant about rottweilers. I had heard the stories on TV. Two weeks later my wife fell in love with a puppy that just so happened to be a rottweiler. Needless to say for the last few years I walk, feed and play with my "wife’s" rottweiler. His name is Carmine and he has become a very sweet friend. I have learned to love Carmine. When we are out for walks Carmine is often confronted by dog lovers who just melt in his presence. Other times we pass mothers pushing strollers who seem to be so terrified by his presence that they cross the street, but if they knew him that would know his is extremely loving. Those who take the time to get to know him (and for him to get to know them) usually love him. People are like big black rottweilers.
Fear and ignorance makes us prejudice. Prejudice means the act or state of holding unreasonable preconceived judgments or convictions or an adverse judgment or opinion formed beforehand or without knowledge or examination of the facts. There is a difference between caution and fear. We do it with dogs, denominations, and people. It is amazing how much our fear will allow us to remain ignorant and how much our ignorance will allow us to remain afraid.
What are your prejudices? Perhaps there is a certain food you refuse to try based on how it looks? Perhaps your prejudices are big black dogs? Big black people? Big white people? Baptists? Roman Catholics? Episcopalians? Perhaps your prejudices were passed down from another generation.
It is hard to listen to someone when we are afraid, isn't? It is hard to "receive" someone when we don’t, won’t or can’t listen. If we cannot receive someone, we cannot know someone. When we won’t move beyond our fears and ignorance love breaks down. Taken to the extreme prejudices have led to genocide which is the ultimate expression of hatred and violence against a group of people.
I wonder how often we see something we fear and rather than confronting our fears, we choose to cross the street? This happens in the church. Someone doesn’t talk about God like we do, so our fear shuts us down. Our ignorance prevents us from receiving and loving the "outsider" and we look for those who think, speak and act like us so that we can remain secure and comfortable.
I wonder why we find so much prejudice in the church? Maybe the question is why does massive parts of the church choose to remain ignorant and afraid? Jesus probably had a pet rottweiler.
3 Comments:
I'm one of those who would love to meet your bride's Rottweiler - precisely because I had an awful experience with a couple that were as mean as snakes and as vicious as they come.
Another connection between Rottweilers and people is that, from what you tell, Rotts and people have to be trained to be mean. My experience is that people don't have to be trained to be "bad" - to sin - but hate, homophobia, racism, classism (pick your "-ism") all need to be taught by hateful parents, friends and communities in order to create kids who hate.
Last year, I went to my first Gay Pride parade here in Chicago - and was amazed at the little kids (of obviously str8 people) who just were in awe and wonder of the joy and spectacle of the parade. They hadn't been trained that gay people were bad - so they reacted with love and joy.
The text Alcoholics Anonymous says that fear is "an evil and corroding thread; the fabric of our existence was shot through with it." Sure is true for me...
The trouble is, once I've been burned by an experience - with a bad Rottweiler, a bad fundamentalist, a bad homophobe - it becomes harder for me to reach out and pet the strange dog, or hug a person who expresses an opinion (or fear) that rubs me the wrong way. So the fear (and mistrust, and brokenness) becomes self-perpetuating.
Interestingly, one of my seminary neighbors has a dog that is clearly anti-social...my friend keeps the dog on a short leash, and muzzled, for that very reason. When I encounter them out for a walk in the community, I give them a wide berth, because the dog was clearly abused by men and reacts strongly to them (including me). The fact is, I don't have the time - or the inclination - to spend the hours it would take to build a relationship with this dog. So the poor mutt remains in fear of me, and I of her.
That, perhaps, defines the condition of a sinful world more than anything I've thought of in a while.
Thanks for the post, brother. I've got same catching up to do on your stuff!
hello how are you today and i have a comment i was wondering if you can help me with? Id like to know this cause my husband want a rotweiler for a pet and i am scared that it will attack my baby and she's 10 months old and i've heard of people saying that rotweilers are mean and not very nice like most dogs and they contin to be mean with there kinda nature and im so scared to have one as a household pet around my baby at 10 months and my husband understands but what do you think? please help me with this and i would really apriciate it alot. liz morales at lmorales3@kc.rr.com for feedback
thank you im soo glad at least someone had the 2 sence to say rottweilers aren't always visious its the owner i had one he was the nicest thing and people were bloking there kids and i just thought it was stupid but your story about carmine it touched me.
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